Stop Playing with God: How Our Treatment of Others Reflects Our Hearts & Intentions 

Introduction

Hey! I’m Jasmine Renee I’ve come to learn that one of the things I’m here to do is to be a Messenger of God’s Love, Compassion, & Grace.  These are explorations that I’ve had and things that I’ve been directly given by God to bring forth to the collective.  

I share these Messages with Love, Compassion, & Understanding.  I hold & bear witness to the fact that all humans have experienced things and have been on their own unique paths.  

Here’s the thing I invite you to remember at the core of your heart; Regardless of what you’ve done, been told, experienced up until this point You (Yes you) Still have Free Will.

Are You Willing to Bring it before God?

I invite you to take a moment to Pause, Breathe, Be Present in this Moment Now.  

Take what resonates, Explore what comes up for you.  


Remember I’m not here trying to sway you or convince you of anything. 

I’m sharing these reflection questions, thoughts, and insights to help others tap into hope, love, inner peace, and a deeper connection with God.

Over the past 10 years, through my own healing journey and reconnection with my faith, I’ve explored these perspectives and understandings. And supporting as many people as possible in their personal growth, strengthening their faith and relationship with God, and connecting with their inner wisdom.

I am not for everyone.  This conversation is definitely not for everyone.  I’m well aware of that.  I’m for the people who are self-aware and actively choose it, because you know the true power that you hold and what’s truly at stake.

To clarify I don’t pretend to be perfect or make it seem like I’ve got it all together or figured out.  I’ve learned that there’s no possible way for me to do that based on my call & walk with God.

Here’s what I do know and what I lean into:

Everyday I aspire to help us all see beyond outdated beliefs, inherited systems, and values that may no longer align with the life  we now wish to create for ourselves and things we want to experience both personally and as a collective.


I’m blunt, direct, and to the point, yet I’m learned to be gentle in my approach.  I don’t believe in a whole lot of fluff, stories, and irrelevant/ unnecessary details to fill out the process.

Your time, energy, and effort matters to me.  Your results matter to me.  You understanding that you have a choice, matters to me.

Takeaways:

  1. You Still Have Free Will meaning you Always have a Choice

  2. Pause, Breathe, & Bring Your Awareness into this Present Moment that’s where our true Connection with God and Ourselves begin.

Reflections & Key Insights from This Exploration

  • Broaden Your Perspective: Gain a deeper understanding of Free Will and how it shapes our lives.

  • Release Negative Intentions: Surrender any harmful thoughts or wishes towards others to God.

  • Acknowledge Spiritual Impact: Recognize the consequences of disrupting Free Will and Divine Order.

  • Embrace Responsibility & Forgiveness: Take responsibility for past actions and ask God for forgiveness, so you can heal and move forward.

God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.
— 1 John 4:16
 

What is God?

To me God is Oneness & Ever-present in everything.  

God is beyond any religion, book, or place.

God is in the air, my breath, and the trees.

God flows through the water, the lakes, the rivers, and oceans.


God is in the moon and the stars.

The rocks and grass.  

Even the cards and crystals some call witchcraft.  

God is loving, forgiving, kind, and compassionate.


God cares about us, how we feel, and what we want.

God is in you and me even when we’re showing up as the worst versions of ourselves.


A dear mentor & colleague of mine once said to me at a pivotal time 4 years ago, when the stress and burdens of my reality had taken hold, “Jasmine, Remember God is in it all.” - Jane Frey


My heart absorbed those words as they rung true through to my soul, they still give me comfort especially when I need to strengthen my faith.

This is what God is to me.  What is God to you?

 
 

What is Free Will?

Free will as an overview is defined as the ability to make choices independently, without being constrained by external forces or predestined outcomes.  It refers to the human capacity to choose actions, beliefs, and thoughts based on personal desires, values, or reasoning, even when influenced by circumstances. 


The concept suggests that individuals are responsible for their decisions and can shape their own destinies, rather than being controlled by fate, divine will, or external factors.  In spiritual and philosophical contexts, free will is often seen as a gift or power that allows people to align with higher principles or go against them.

In everyday terms:

Free will means that you have the power to make your own decisions and shape the direction of your life.  


It’s the freedom to choose what you do, how you react to situations, and what you believe, rather than being controlled by others, external circumstances, or inherited beliefs/ traditions.

6 Examples of ways we can execute our free will in daily life:

  1. When someone insults you, you have the choice to either retaliate, stay calm, or walk away.

  2. You can choose to make healthy lifestyle changes, like exercising or eating better, instead of feeling like you’re stuck in unhealthy habits.

  3. When you're overwhelmed by others' expectations, you can choose what truly aligns with your desires and say no to what drains you.

  4. You can decide to let go of anger, fear, or guilt, making space for peace and stronger connections to your intuition and faith.

  5. You decide what career & quality of life to pursue, even if your family pressures you to take a different path.

  6. Rather than staying in a job or situation that no longer serves you, you can choose to follow what God is calling you to do.


Ultimately to me free will is about recognizing that we have a choice regardless of what has been or what we’ve known up until this point.

When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.
— Lao Tzu
 

The Interesting things we Choose to Create

Let's get real.  People are out here doing the most and it's creating fear, chaos, and interesting experiences for some. 

If you're here to create transformation and change, why are we just sending negative energy back and forth, casting it into the darkness or anywhere else? 

Consider This:

Why not do something more useful and powerful?  Instead of bouncing that negativity back into the collective frequency, how about we surrender it to God? 

Allow it to transform for our highest good to serve us and the greater collective mission that some of us are called to hold as frequency holders for this transformative time that we are in as we go through yet another round of inherited generational cycles.

That’s the real power we hold as change-makers, messengers, pastors, alchemists, light workers—whatever label you choose to use.

Reflection: 

Recognize the impact of your actions.  Ask yourself, what is this contributing to and does this align with the steps that God wants me to take?

Does God want me to Judge and Send this back to where it came from or does God want me to play my part and just  Love, Pray, & Surrender it to God. 

To trust that God has me covered & protected and that everything is always used for my highest good.

Takeaway: True power lies in transforming negative energy, not engaging with it. Surrendering negativity, ill-wishes, and things done against you to God.

I allow God to work on my behalf. I’m not willing to compromise the sacredness of my gifts and my heart by misusing them and directing harm towards others.

Plus I have super strong energy boundaries, borderline obsessive clearing practices, and a deep understanding that I’ve cultivated over the last 10 years into my own inner standing of how this all works. Listen I’ve come across some stuff during this time.

 

Harmful Practices: The Danger of Infringing on Free Will

Some people are sending out really troubling energy—prayers against others well-being/ blessings, ill-wishes, dark/black magic—which infringes on others' free will.  Spells for love, death spells, or messing with others' chakras—what’s the goal here? 

Have you taken a moment to pause, breathe, be present, and ask yourself, What am I really hoping to accomplish here, and is it worth the consequences?

When you infringe on someone else's free will, you not only disrupt their life path but also bring negative consequences into your own.  Energetically, this creates chaos, feeding into a cycle of fear, anger, and destruction.  What you send out comes back, often amplified.

Instead of trying to control outcomes or others, try focusing on yourself and what you actually want to have and experience.   What if, instead of manipulating the energy around others, you redirected that power inward, trusting that God has a plan greater than you can see? 

Real change starts from within. The more you trust God and the natural flow of life, the more peace, love, and abundance you invite into your own experience.

Choose to surrender control and focus on your growth and healing.  In doing so, you honor both your journey and the free will of others.  Ask yourself, How can I contribute to the Values of God today rather than chaos and harm?

God’s Values:  Love, Compassion, Justice, Forgiveness, Wisdom, Peace, Integrity, Grace, & Truth

Takeaway: Consider the consequences of your actions, especially when they infringe on others' free will.  Pause and reflect on your true intentions before taking any action.


Harmful Practices

Love Spells

What is a Love Spell?

A love spell is a ritual or action intended to make someone fall in love with you or influence their feelings toward you. It involves using specific words, objects, or practices to try to affect another person's emotions or actions.

What you need to know

When it comes to love spells, many people believe they are harmless acts meant to attract or influence someone’s affection.  But the truth is, these spells can have dangerous consequences that go far beyond what you might intend. 

Love spells interfere with a person’s free will, manipulating their emotions and desires to suit your own needs.  This kind of energetic manipulation is a violation of the Values of God & Divine Order, where respect for autonomy and free choice is held to the highest standard.

What you may not realize is that you could be unknowingly entangling yourself with dark forces. 

  1. You don’t always know what someone is carrying—whether it’s unresolved  trauma, negative energy, or even demons that they are battling. 

  2. You don’t know what you or the person who’s performing it is actually engaging with.  I know one thing for sure it’s not God.  Although God is in it all.

By trying to bind or control someone through a love spell, you might be inviting their baggage, and everything they’re dealing with, into your own life.  This could cause serious harm not only to the other person but also to you, creating a cycle of chaos and unintended consequences.


Love spells can backfire.  In fact they often do or don’t work to begin with.

2 Reflection Questions: 

  1. Have you considered what about if this causes this person to become obsessed with you and you no longer are interested in them?

  2. Have you ever had someone obsessed with you / stalking you?

I can tell you from first hand experience it’s not fun to receive that type of attention.  It’s a scary experience and can become dangerous. 

In theory it might seem like it would be fun and cute the idea you have in your mind.  In reality you don’t know what can happen and they can become controlling and something you never imagined.

What seems like an easy way to get what you want can end up leading you down a path of heartache, disconnection with God, and interesting consequences.  When we force situations, we step out of alignment with God’s plan and block the flow of natural, divine connection.

Takeaway: Love spells disrupt free will and often bring unforeseen consequences. Respecting free will and Divine Order is important.  Instead of manipulation, trust that God has a greater plan for love and connection.

Love Note from Jasmine Renee

Listen, I know what it’s like to love someone so deeply and not have them feel the same or treat you the way you deserve.  It’s an interesting thing to experience and it can hurt and bring up all types of things for us. 

Here’s the thing, God is amazing.  Give it to God.  Reflect on all of the things, experiences, and qualities that you love and enjoy about the person and ask God to bring you someone that will  give you what you deserve- them willingly choosing you.

I know we might not know each other and I don’t know your story.  I just want to ask you, have you thought this through?

If you have to do love spells to get them, do you have to keep doing them and for how long in order to keep them?

We always have a choice.  What are you choosing?  You deserve so much more. Sending you big hugs.

 

The Serious Consequences of Praying for Ill Will and Blocking Others' Blessings

Praying for ill will or seeking to block the blessings of others involves a grave misunderstanding of God’s principles. When you approach God with requests for harm, you are essentially asking God to act against His own values of love, compassion, and justice. This is not only contradictory but also profoundly misaligned with the essence of Divine will.

Misalignment with God’s Values: 

By praying for harm or trying to block someone else's blessings, you are attempting to manipulate the divine to act against its fundamental nature. God embodies love, justice, and harmony. Seeking ill will contradicts these core values, leading to a conflict between your intentions and divine principles.

Impact on Your Relationship with God:

Asking God to go against His values weakens your spiritual connection. It creates a gap between you and divine guidance, making it harder to follow the steps that God gives you and cultivate spiritual peace. This disconnect can cause confusion and emotional turmoil.

Consequences of Personification: 

What is personification?

Personification is when you attribute human traits or qualities to non-human entities or abstract concepts. 

For example, if you say "God is vengeful" or "God is like a strict parent," you're giving human characteristics to God.  This can shape how we understand and relate to divine qualities.

Personifying God as a being who can be swayed to act against His nature can result in treating God as a tool for personal gain, rather than a source of unconditional support.  This can create a gap between you and divine guidance and lead to negative repercussions, confusion and emotional distress in your own life.

Reflection:  Consider the inherent contradiction in asking a being defined by love and justice to bring harm to others.  Reflect on how this misalignment might be affecting your life and relationship with God.

Takeaway: True alignment with divine will involves embracing love, compassion, and justice.  Rather than seeking harm for others, focus on giving any negative energy, thoughts, and intentions over to God.  Then ask for support to heal and process whatever’s coming up for you. 

 

What is Divine Order?

Divine Order refers to the natural, spiritual, and universal laws that govern the balance, harmony, and flow of life.  It’s the belief that everything in the universe has a purpose and is organized according to a higher, perfect intelligence—God/ Source/ Oneness. 

Divine Order maintains that events unfold in alignment with this greater plan, even when we don’t fully understand them. In practical terms, it means that there’s a structure and balance to life that we’re all connected to. 

When we act in alignment with this order—honoring the free will of others, living with integrity, and choosing love, compassion, and truth—we experience harmony. 

When we go against this order—through harmful actions, manipulation, or spreading chaos—we disrupt that balance, often leading to personal or collective suffering.


The Consequences of Violating Divine Order

Some are choosing to spread lies, chaos, and hatred.  We need to look within, clean up our hearts, and stop the insanity.  Yes, I intentionally used the word insanity.  

Some of you are playing with fire, and I don’t know if you even fully understand the gross violations against Free Will and Divine Order that you’re engaging in.

This includes addressing generational curses—where your actions could affect future generations.  It’s a violation of free will. 

It’s against Divine Order and Balance and the Free Will of future generations for you to create chaos, agree to things and terms that will give you clearance and the things you want in this life, and then push the consequences to future generations.

Question:  How much longer do you think that God is going to allow this to happen?

Takeaway: Violating Divine Order can have long-lasting and far-reaching consequences, affecting not just you but future generations. Reflect on the broader impact of your actions.

 

Take Responsibility and Seek Forgiveness: Surrender Negative Intentions to God

Understanding why this is important to our relationship with God is essential for our spiritual growth.  When we intentionally or unintentionally harm others—whether through our actions, words, or even thoughts—we disrupt the balance of Divine Order. 

This imbalance not only affects our heart connection but also has ripple effects on the people and situations around us. 

Taking responsibility means owning up to the part we’ve played, recognizing the impact of our choices, and facing it head-on.  It's about acknowledging where we've sent out harmful energy, held onto grudges, or acted in ways that don't align with our best selves or God's will.  Without this ownership, we can remain trapped in cycles of chaos and misalignment.

Asking God for forgiveness is a crucial step in restoring that balance.  It's not just about asking for God's grace—it's also about forgiving ourselves and, when necessary, making amends with others.  

Forgiveness helps us let go of the weight of past experiences and clears the way for healing, a stronger connection with God, and an enhanced Self perception.  It also allows us to believe that we’re worthy of having the results that we want as we move forward.

Surrendering negative intentions to God is the next step in this process.  By releasing control and trusting that God will take care of the situation, we remove ourselves from the unuseful cycles of resentment, blame, and revenge.  This act of surrender realigns us with God’s Values, allowing us to return to a state of peace, presence, and receive God’s guidance.

Takeaway: Taking responsibility and asking God for forgiveness are powerful steps in healing and realigning with the Values of God.  It’s about recognizing the impact of our actions, making amends, and trusting God to guide us forward in presence and love.

 

Actionable Steps for Aligning with God’s Values

If you’ve recognized that your actions have caused harm towards others or the planet, you can take meaningful steps toward making things right. 

  1. Acknowledge and Reflect: Begin by sincerely acknowledging the harm caused. Take time for personal reflection to understand the impact of your actions on others and the environment. This step is crucial for deepening your awareness and commitment to change.

  2. Apologize and Seek Forgiveness: Have an honest and heartfelt conversation with God. Apologize for your actions and ask for forgiveness. This act of humility opens the door to healing and sets the foundation for personal transformation.

  3. Request Guidance: Ask God for guidance on how to proceed. This may involve seeking ways to rectify the harm done, whether through direct action or by changing your behavior moving forward. Be open to receiving divine insights, which may come in various forms, such as through intuition, signs, or the advice of others.

  4. Make Amends: If appropriate, possible, and directed by God reach out to those affected to make amends.  Offer a genuine apology and ask how you can support their healing process.  If direct contact isn’t possible, consider other ways to contribute positively, such as supporting causes that align with your newfound understanding.

  5. Commit to Change: Implement the changes guided by your reflection and divine advice.  Focus on embodying values such as love, compassion, and integrity in your daily life.  This commitment should be an ongoing effort, as true transformation takes time and consistency.

  6. Trust and Follow Divine Guidance: Trust that God knows what’s best for you and others.  Follow the guidance you receive, even if it means taking indirect or non-traditional steps.  Your trust and adherence to divine wisdom will guide you toward alignment with God’s Values.

  7. Engage in Continuous Self-Improvement: Regularly review your actions and intentions.  Commit to ongoing self-improvement and spiritual growth. Engaging in practices like meditation, prayer, and self-reflection will help you stay connected with God and contribute positively to the world.

Takeaway: Apologize and surrender to God, ask for guidance on your next steps.  Trust and follow the guidance you receive, even if it means not reaching out to someone directly.

 

Final Reflection

This message is not about judgment, fear, shame or anything like that.  It’s about understanding our actions and if they’re aligned with God’s Values to ensure we play our part in creating a meaningful experience on the planet for ourselves and others.  

I’ve learned that it’s really pretty simple if we allow it to be.  Listen to God, clean up your actions and heart, and be mindful of how you treat others.  If you wish to receive compassion and love, make sure to offer it in return.


Takeaway: Stay in alignment by treating others with respect and compassion.  Your treatment of others reflects your relationship with God and your commitment to God’s Values.  Avoid causing harm and focus on embodying the values you seek in the world.


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