by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Let’s talk about a phrase we’ve all heard – “an eye for an eye.” It’s tossed around in conversations about justice, revenge, and what people think it means to “get what’s coming to them.” But have we ever really stopped to ask: What did this actually mean back then – and how did we twist it into something it was never meant to be?
Most people don’t realize that “an eye for an eye” wasn’t about revenge – it was about restraint.
In the Old Testament – Exodus 21:23-25, Leviticus 24:19-20, and Deuteronomy 19:21 – this law was part of a system meant to create balance. If someone injured another person, the punishment had to match the crime – not exceed it. It was a way of saying: Justice must be fair and proportionate. You don’t take someone’s life because they broke your arm. You don’t destroy a family because someone hurt your pride.
The intention was to stop people from letting their anger push them into escalating violence. It wasn’t a free pass to go around handing out payback – it was a boundary. A way to ensure that justice didn’t slip into unchecked cruelty.
But here’s the problem: We don’t use it that way anymore.
Today, “an eye for an eye” has become a rallying cry for revenge.
We see it everywhere – from global conflicts to social media drama. Someone wrongs us, so we hit back harder. A country attacks, so the other retaliates. A person makes a mistake, and suddenly their entire life needs to be burned to the ground.
It’s not about balance anymore – it’s about domination.
We’ve moved from justice to vengeance – from restoring order to feeding the fire.
And let’s be honest: that cycle never ends well.
When we respond to harm with more harm, we don’t heal anything – we just multiply the pain. It’s a false sense of power. It might feel good for a moment, like we’ve “taught them a lesson,” but all we’ve done is invite more destruction into the room.
So what’s the shift?
The real question isn’t “How do I make them pay?” – it’s “How do we create accountability without causing more damage?”
Justice without wisdom is just more violence in disguise.
In the next post, we’ll dig into how this revenge culture is showing up right now – in politics, global conflicts, and even in the way we cancel people online. But for today, I want to leave you with this:
Are you confusing justice with payback?
When you see someone face consequences, do you want balance – or do you want to see them suffer?
And most importantly – are you willing to let go of the need to “win” if it means real healing can happen?
Because the truth is – you can’t build peace while you’re sharpening your sword.
Let’s talk about it.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Every day, I hear all sorts of perspectives from people. And while I respect that everyone has their own view, I’ve noticed something that keeps standing out: many people say they’re not trying to change others, but their actions suggest otherwise.
Instead of simply sharing their point of view, they try to manipulate, shame, or question others in a way that undermines their beliefs. The message often ends up being – I don’t need to change you, but I’m going to make you feel bad for not thinking like I do.
This behavior is subtle, yet it can be damaging. I’m not here to change your perspective. But more often than not, when we engage in these kinds of interactions, we aren’t just offering our viewpoint – we’re attempting to diminish others in the process.
This isn’t just a matter of differing opinions. It’s about the power dynamics in how we communicate, especially when it’s rooted in a belief system. When we try to shame others for thinking differently, it isn’t just wrong – it’s harmful, and if we’re doing it in the name of God, it’s even more concerning. It doesn’t align with the core principles of love, compassion, and understanding that many of us hold dear. In fact, it could be seen as something that comes from the enemy, not from a place of divine love.
We need to check our actions and words. If we say we believe in God and hold those values, we need to evaluate if our conduct reflects that belief. Is our intent to foster understanding and love, or are we just trying to prove ourselves right?
I’m not here to argue. I’m not here to convince anyone of anything. My goal is to engage with those who are open to receiving a broader perspective, who are ready to ask powerful questions and seek new insights. I’m here to co-create – to partner with organizations and individuals who resonate with the message of growth and fulfillment of God’s will. Together, we can build something beautiful.
If we’re committed to a higher purpose, our discussions shouldn’t be about one-upping or proving someone wrong. They should be about sharing, growing, and working together for the collective good.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
In a world where material success often takes center stage, it’s easy to overlook the deeper contributions people make to society. We’ve grown accustomed to measuring someone’s worth by what they own, the titles they hold, or how visible their success appears.
But this mindset blinds us to the true gifts and impact individuals bring into the world – the kind of value that can’t be counted in dollars or displayed in status symbols.
When we discount someone’s gifts because they don’t fit a materialistic mold, we miss out on the true value of human potential.
The artist whose work stirs souls, the teacher who inspires minds, the relationship that brings comfort, those of us who cultivate community – these contributions may not come with fame or fortune, but they ripple out, shaping lives and shifting hearts.
What’s more, this limited way of seeing others often reflects a deeper issue – how we define value within ourselves.
If we only acknowledge what’s externally impressive, we might also be dismissing our own quiet strengths and unseen victories. Recognizing the worth in others, regardless of their material standing, is a mirror – it shows us whether we truly understand the meaning of purpose, integrity, and love.
So how do we shift this?
Check your lens: Notice when you’re making snap judgments about someone’s value based on their appearance, job, or financial status. Ask yourself, “What gifts/ understanding does this person bring? and how do they contribute to the different aspects of our process?”
Celebrate the unseen: Acknowledge and affirm the contributions of those around you – the emotional support a friend offers, the creative spark someone shares, or the wisdom a person helps unlock.
Redefine success: Understand what success means to you and why. Is that useful now?
What are additional aspects and qualities that would add to a feeling of achievement and success in the different contexts of your day and life?
Effective Communication begins when we stop weighing people by what they have and start honoring who they are.
Let’s move past the surface and recognize the power of each person’s unique role in creating a more compassionate, connected world.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
God,
I come before you, acknowledging that there are patterns in my life and in my family’s history that I no longer wish to carry. I lean into your understanding God and the mentorship of your Holy Spirit. I recognize that there are generational curses of financial lack, poverty, fear, and guilt that have been passed down through my ancestors. Today, I choose to break these curses in the name of Jesus Christ.
I repent for any ways I have aligned with these financial struggles, and I ask for your forgiveness. I renounce the belief that money is evil, that it’s hard to come by, or that I am unworthy of abundance. I break any strongholds of fear, guilt, and shame that have controlled my financial decisions.
I ask that you cleanse my heart and my finances, and that you show me new ways of thinking about money – ways that honor you and reflect your provision and abundance. Teach me how to steward the resources you’ve given me with wisdom, generosity, and integrity.
I declare that I am no longer bound by the patterns of the past and the lies of the enemy. I choose to live in the freedom you’ve promised, knowing that you are my Provider and that you want me to live in abundance.
Thank You for breaking the chains of financial struggles over my life. I receive your peace and your provision today, and I commit to building a legacy of financial freedom for myself and for future generations.
In Jesus’ name, I pray Amen.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Money struggles often feel like they’ve been handed down to us – almost like a family heirloom we didn’t ask for. Whether it’s constant financial stress, the inability to break free from debt, or even feelings of guilt tied to wealth, these patterns run deeper than just our actions. They can be rooted in generations of inherited beliefs and trauma.
So, what’s really going on when we feel stuck in a cycle of financial difficulty? The answer lies in generational curses – unspoken agreements or beliefs passed down through family lines. These beliefs impact the way we see money, the way we relate to it, and even the way we subconsciously handle it.
What Are Generational Financial Curses?
Generational curses aren’t just about the physical inheritance of money or property; they’re about the spiritual and emotional inheritance of beliefs, behaviors, and cycles that affect our financial realities. These are often beliefs like:
“Money is the root of all evil.”
“You have to work hard for every penny.”
“You can never have enough.”
“Being wealthy means you’re selfish or disconnected from God.”
These beliefs often become ingrained in us so deeply that we don’t even realize they’ve been passed down – until we hit roadblocks in our own financial journey.
Signs of a Generational Money Curse
How do we recognize these hidden curses? Here are some signs that the patterns of financial struggle in your family might be showing up in your life:
Avoidance or Shame Around Money: Feeling uncomfortable, embarrassed, or guilty when talking about money, or avoiding money altogether.
How Do These Curses Impact Us?
Generational financial curses can create emotional, spiritual, and mental blocks that keep us stuck.
These blocks often show up as:
Breaking Free: What You Can Do About It
If you’ve recognized these patterns in your life, the good news is, you don’t have to stay stuck. God has the power to break these generational curses and help us build a new legacy of financial freedom.
Here’s how you can start breaking free:
1. Acknowledge the Curse: Awareness is the first step. Take time to reflect on your family’s financial patterns, and ask God to show you any areas where you might still be holding onto old beliefs.
2. Repent for Aligning with the Curse: It’s important to repent not just for your own actions, but for the actions of your ancestors. This helps to break the spiritual ties that may still be affecting your financial life.
3. Renounce the Lies: Begin renouncing the lies and beliefs you’ve inherited – whether you’ve accepted them consciously or unconsciously. Say out loud that you no longer accept these beliefs as your truth.
4. Declare God’s Truth Over Your Finances: Start declaring God’s promises of abundance, provision, and financial freedom over your life. Speak life into your financial situation instead of continuing the cycle of lack.
5. Commit to New Patterns: Break the cycle by establishing new, positive patterns. Budgeting, saving, and investing in a way that aligns with your values will help you create new habits that honor God and the abundant path he has for your life.
Closing Thoughts
The path to financial freedom starts with recognizing and breaking free from the hidden patterns that have held us back. By understanding the spiritual and emotional roots of generational financial curses, we can take active steps to change our mindset and create a new, abundant legacy.
You don’t have to carry the weight of past struggles any longer. With God’s help, we can rewrite our financial story and start walking in the freedom He intended for us.
