Every day, I hear all sorts of perspectives from people. And while I respect that everyone has their own view, I’ve noticed something that keeps standing out: many people say they’re not trying to change others, but their actions suggest otherwise.
Instead of simply sharing their point of view, they try to manipulate, shame, or question others in a way that undermines their beliefs. The message often ends up being – I don’t need to change you, but I’m going to make you feel bad for not thinking like I do.
This behavior is subtle, yet it can be damaging. I’m not here to change your perspective. But more often than not, when we engage in these kinds of interactions, we aren’t just offering our viewpoint – we’re attempting to diminish others in the process.
This isn’t just a matter of differing opinions. It’s about the power dynamics in how we communicate, especially when it’s rooted in a belief system. When we try to shame others for thinking differently, it isn’t just wrong – it’s harmful, and if we’re doing it in the name of God, it’s even more concerning. It doesn’t align with the core principles of love, compassion, and understanding that many of us hold dear. In fact, it could be seen as something that comes from the enemy, not from a place of divine love.
We need to check our actions and words. If we say we believe in God and hold those values, we need to evaluate if our conduct reflects that belief. Is our intent to foster understanding and love, or are we just trying to prove ourselves right?
I’m not here to argue. I’m not here to convince anyone of anything. My goal is to engage with those who are open to receiving a broader perspective, who are ready to ask powerful questions and seek new insights. I’m here to co-create – to partner with organizations and individuals who resonate with the message of growth and fulfillment of God’s will. Together, we can build something beautiful.
If we’re committed to a higher purpose, our discussions shouldn’t be about one-upping or proving someone wrong. They should be about sharing, growing, and working together for the collective good.