by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Let’s talk about a tough reality – sometimes, God’s plan for your business won’t look like a “smart” move to the outside world.
You might feel led to:
Serve a niche that others say “doesn’t have money”
Raise your prices when logic says to discount
Slow down and rest when the market tells you to push harder
Turn down an opportunity that looks like a “dream deal” because God said no
And the moment you share these moves with others – whether it’s a business coach, a peer, or even a well-meaning friend – you’re met with confusion or even mockery.
Here’s what you need to understand: God’s plan is strategic, but it’s not always logical – at least not by human standards.
Logic vs. Divine Strategy
The world’s approach to business relies on what can be seen, measured, and predicted. It’s about trends, analytics, and proven formulas.
But divine strategy moves beyond that. It taps into what cannot yet be seen – the doors God is preparing to open, the people He’s aligning for you, and the impact He’s orchestrating behind the scenes.
Following God’s plan might look like:
From the outside, it can seem reckless – but from a
spiritual perspective, it’s obedience.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Let’s get real about something most people won’t talk about – the cost of ignoring God’s voice in your business.
It happens more than we admit. You feel a clear nudge from God – maybe it’s to pivot your offers, serve a specific group of people, or structure your business in a way that doesn’t “make sense” by the world’s standards. But instead of following that divine direction, you hesitate.
You ask for advice, look at the data, and run it past business coaches or mentors who don’t move with the same spiritual awareness you do.
And what happens?
You start doubting what you heard.
You begin questioning if it was really God speaking to you or just your imagination.
And before you know it, you’re adjusting your strategy to match what looks logical – even if it’s pulling you further from the vision God gave you.
But here’s what’s not being said enough – there’s a cost to that. A real, heavy cost.
The Price of Playing It Safe
When you ignore divine guidance, it doesn’t just slow you down – it creates a ripple effect:
1. You lose momentum.
God’s timing isn’t random. When He directs you, there’s a reason it’s now, not later. Delaying because you want more “proof” often means you miss the window of opportunity He opened for you.
2. You invite confusion.
The longer you second-guess God’s plan, the harder it becomes to hear His voice clearly. Suddenly, every decision feels cloudy, and you can’t tell if you’re moving from faith or fear.
3. Your peace starts to slip.
Even if you’re “successful” by the world’s standards, there’s an unease that creeps in when you know you’re out of alignment with God’s will. No amount of money or client wins can replace the peace that comes from obedience.
4. You open the door to unnecessary struggle.
When you follow human logic over divine guidance, you may still see some progress, but it often comes with resistance, burnout, and closed doors. What could’ve flowed with ease becomes a constant uphill battle.
It’s Not About Perfection – It’s About Alignment
Let’s be clear – this isn’t about getting it right 100% of the time. We all wrestle with doubt. The real danger isn’t in having questions – it’s in allowing the world’s logic to override God’s leading.
Because at the end of the day, the strategies, the data, the “proven methods” – they are tools. But they are not your compass.
God is.
How I Can Support You
If you’ve been feeling the tension between what God has shown you and what others are advising you to do – you’re not alone.
I help entrepreneurs and professionals like you move from confusion to clarity – not by tossing out strategy, but by making sure your strategy aligns with the divine plan for your life and business.
We work through the fear of getting it “wrong,” clear out the noise, and build a business that reflects both your purpose and God’s guidance.
Because you don’t have to choose between faith and success – they’re meant to work together.
If you need support to stop letting doubt and outside opinions pull you away from what God is leading you to do, let’s talk. Your business deserves to move with both strategy and spiritual confidence.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Let’s talk about something I find fascinating – and honestly, a bit wild.
When you’re in business and you move with God’s guidance, there will be people – coaches, consultants, even peers – who mock you for it. You can stand firm in the clarity God gave you, knowing the type of people you’re meant to serve, the path you’re meant to walk, and how you’re being led to structure your business… and still, there will be those who roll their eyes, question you, or flat-out ridicule your choices.
Why? Because your direction doesn’t come from their “proven strategies,” the latest data, or what science or trends suggest. It comes from something they can’t measure – divine guidance.
What strikes me is how disconnected this mindset really is. If we look at the holy books – the Bible, the Quran, the Torah – the pattern is clear. There have always been people who mocked God’s direction, who ridiculed those walking in faith, and who thought their knowledge, logic, or status was greater than divine wisdom. These stories aren’t just ancient history; they mirror what happens today.
What’s even more interesting is how modern minds seem to think we’ve evolved past that – as if the same spiritual principles no longer apply to us. As if God’s guidance is now irrelevant, outdated, or somehow less reliable than the latest business trends.
But let’s be real.
When you’re walking in alignment with God’s plan for you, that doesn’t always match what the world expects. It won’t always make sense to others — and sometimes, it won’t even make sense to you. But that doesn’t mean it’s wrong. It means you’re tuned into something deeper than human logic.
The truth is, people mock what they don’t understand. They ridicule what challenges their sense of control. And they shame what reminds them of their own disconnection from something greater.
So, if you’ve ever found yourself standing in a room – virtual or otherwise – with someone questioning why you’re building your business the way you are, why you’re serving the people God placed on your heart, or why you’re choosing a path that doesn’t “make sense,” remember this:
They’re not mocking you – they’re reacting to their own limitations.
Your job isn’t to convince them.
Your job is to stay in alignment, keep listening, and let God’s direction be louder than their doubt.
I’m turning this into a series – because there’s so much to unpack about how faith, business, and divine alignment really work in a world that worships data over discernment.
Let me know – has this happened to you? How do you stay rooted when others question the path God has you on?
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
I find it fascinating – really, kind of wild – that some people go through life without ever looking within. No real self-reflection. No pause to ask:
And listen, if you’re just living your life and minding your business, that’s one thing. But if you’re out here leading people – especially if you’re claiming to help them – how are you not making self-awareness a priority?
It’s embarrassing to be in a position of influence and not understand yourself. Because whether you realize it or not, your patterns, your fears, and your unresolved stuff? It spills over into how you lead. And if you’re doing this in the name of God? Then let me ask – have you even read what scripture says about it?
I was curious. So I looked into it.
The Bible Has a Lot to Say About This
1. If You’re Leading, You’re Held to a Higher Standard
“Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.” — James 3:1
If you’re leading people – whether in business, faith, or life – you don’t just get to wing it without consequences. You’re responsible for the impact of your words and actions. And if you’re not checking yourself regularly, how do you know you’re leading with wisdom instead of personal bias?
2. Self-Examination Isn’t Optional
“Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves.” — 2 Corinthians 13:5
It’s easy to call other people out, but scripture makes it clear: You are supposed to check yourself first. Are you really walking the talk? Or are you just saying the right things while moving through life on autopilot?
3. Your Intentions Matter
“All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the Lord.” — Proverbs 16:2
This one hit me. Because let’s be real—people justify all kinds of nonsense in the name of “doing good.” But God isn’t fooled. He sees beyond surface actions and looks straight at why you’re doing what you’re doing. If your motivation is control, recognition, or feeding your own ego? That’s not leadership. That’s self-serving.
4. Blind Spots Are Real – And Dangerous
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” — Matthew 7:3
If you’re leading without self-awareness, you’re probably missing some big blind spots. And that means you’re making decisions, giving advice, or influencing others from a place of personal distortion. That’s how harm happens – often unintentionally, but harm nonetheless.
5. Leadership Is About Service, Not Control
“Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” — Matthew 20:26
Real leadership isn’t about being in charge. It’s about serving others. And you can’t serve well if you don’t even understand yourself. If you’re not regularly pausing to check in with God, with yourself, and with how you’re actually showing up, then who exactly are you leading?
So, Let’s Be Honest…
When was the last time you actually sat with yourself and asked:
Am I leading from a place of wisdom—or just habit?
Are my words and actions actually aligned with what I claim to believe?
What’s really driving me right now?
Because if you’re not asking those questions, then what are you really doing?
If your leadership – whether in business, faith, or life – isn’t rooted in truth and self-awareness, then it’s rooted in something else. And if you don’t know what that “something else” is?
That’s a problem.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
I find it fascinating – really, kind of wild – that some people go through life without ever looking within. No real self-reflection. No pause to ask:
And listen, if you’re just living your life and minding your business, that’s one thing. But if you’re out here leading people – especially if you’re claiming to help them – how are you not making self-awareness a priority?
It’s embarrassing to be in a position of influence and not understand yourself. Because whether you realize it or not, your patterns, your fears, and your unresolved stuff? It spills over into how you lead. And if you’re doing this in the name of God? Then let me ask – have you even read what scripture says about it?
I was curious. So I looked into it.
The Bible Has a Lot to Say About This
1. If You’re Leading, You’re Held to a Higher Standard
“Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.” — James 3:1
If you’re leading people – whether in business, faith, or life – you don’t just get to wing it without consequences. You’re responsible for the impact of your words and actions. And if you’re not checking yourself regularly, how do you know you’re leading with wisdom instead of personal bias?
2. Self-Examination Isn’t Optional
“Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves.” — 2 Corinthians 13:5
It’s easy to call other people out, but scripture makes it clear: You are supposed to check yourself first. Are you really walking the talk? Or are you just saying the right things while moving through life on autopilot?
3. Your Intentions Matter
“All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the Lord.” — Proverbs 16:2
This one hit me. Because let’s be real—people justify all kinds of nonsense in the name of “doing good.” But God isn’t fooled. He sees beyond surface actions and looks straight at why you’re doing what you’re doing. If your motivation is control, recognition, or feeding your own ego? That’s not leadership. That’s self-serving.
4. Blind Spots Are Real – And Dangerous
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” — Matthew 7:3
If you’re leading without self-awareness, you’re probably missing some big blind spots. And that means you’re making decisions, giving advice, or influencing others from a place of personal distortion. That’s how harm happens – often unintentionally, but harm nonetheless.
5. Leadership Is About Service, Not Control
“Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” — Matthew 20:26
Real leadership isn’t about being in charge. It’s about serving others. And you can’t serve well if you don’t even understand yourself. If you’re not regularly pausing to check in with God, with yourself, and with how you’re actually showing up, then who exactly are you leading?
So, Let’s Be Honest…
When was the last time you actually sat with yourself and asked:
Am I leading from a place of wisdom—or just habit?
Are my words and actions actually aligned with what I claim to believe?
What’s really driving me right now?
Because if you’re not asking those questions, then what are you really doing?
If your leadership – whether in business, faith, or life – isn’t rooted in truth and self-awareness, then it’s rooted in something else. And if you don’t know what that “something else” is?
That’s a problem.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Assumptions are dangerous. Not only can they lead us to do a disservice to others, but they can also put us in harm’s way, take us off track, and block the blessings God has for us. Too often, people assume they know what someone else needs, what they should be doing, or where they should be headed – without truly seeing the person in front of them. And when that happens, we risk leading them away from what God is actually calling them to do.
The Danger of Misguiding Others
When we assume we know what’s best for someone, we can unintentionally steer them in the wrong direction. Instead of supporting them in discerning God’s path for their life, we project our limited understanding onto them. That’s a serious problem – because if someone follows advice that pulls them away from their divine assignment, that’s not just between them and God. Now, you’ve stepped into that equation.
If you claim to be a messenger of God, a steward of His people, or someone who genuinely wants to help, then assuming you know what’s best – without listening, asking, or discerning – can be dangerous. It can cause harm. Because not every piece of advice, every opportunity, or every path is meant for every person. And when we insert ourselves where we shouldn’t, we risk becoming a distraction rather than a support.
Assumptions Can Block Our Own Blessings
The other side of this is how assumptions can stop us from receiving what God has for us. We look at people through our limited human understanding and decide – based on appearances, social status, material things, or surface-level interactions – whether they are valuable to us. Whether they have something to offer. Whether they are a blessing.
And in doing so, we miss the very blessings God has placed in front of us.
God knows more than we do. He aligns us with people, places, and opportunities that are meant to shape us, grow us, and bless us. But when we assume we already know who someone is or what they bring to the table, we close ourselves off from what God is trying to give us.
And on the flip side, we also assume that people have good intentions. We assume they are kind, that they operate with integrity, that they see the world the way we do. But the reality is—some people are not for us. Some people are walking in darkness. Some people will do whatever it takes to manipulate, deceive, and destroy.
This is why discernment is non-negotiable.
The Power of Discernment Over Assumption
Instead of assuming, we need to be discerning. Instead of making snap judgments, we need to ask questions. Instead of moving based on what we think we know, we need to move based on the clarity and guidance we receive from God and the Holy Spirit.
Discernment allows us to:
Be in the right spaces, around the right people, and on the right path.
Recognize when someone or something is not for us – even when it looks good on the surface.
Receive the blessings God is sending us instead of blocking them with our own assumptions.
Stay aligned with the favor and promises God has already spoken over our lives.
Because let’s be real – there are people who can sell you a dream, a lifestyle, a philosophy, or even a false sense of security, all while working against you behind the scenes. Some people are not just misguided; they are actively seeking to deceive, harm, and destroy.
This is why it is more important than ever to be clear in spirit, to stay connected to God, and to trust the discernment He gives us. When we do that, we not only protect ourselves, but we also ensure that we are truly supporting, guiding, and helping others in a way that honors God – not our own limited understanding.
No more assumptions. No more leaning on what we think we know. It’s time to move with discernment, wisdom, and divine clarity.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Why True Impact Comes from Curiosity, Not Assumptions
One of the most interesting things I’ve noticed is how often people assume that if you’re not actively doing something, you must not know how to do it – or that you need to be taught. It’s a fascinating mindset because, when you really think about it, there are countless things you know how to do but simply don’t.
Maybe it’s a matter of capacity – you’re juggling other priorities. Maybe it’s just not aligned with what you’re focused on right now. Or maybe, quite simply, you don’t want to do it. And yet, people often project their assumptions onto others, believing that throwing information at someone is the solution they need. But that’s not what makes an effective coach, mentor, or helper.
The Danger of Assuming You Know What Someone Needs
The truth is, we don’t know what we don’t know. And more importantly, we don’t know what we don’t know about other people.
When we assume we have the full picture – when we think we know what someone lacks, what they need, or what they should do – we aren’t actually helping. We’re operating from our own perspective, not theirs. And that creates a disconnect.
Real effectiveness comes from holding space. From seeing the person in front of us as they are, rather than through the filter of our own beliefs or experiences. When we stop assuming and start being curious, we open up space for:
Empathy – Understanding someone’s situation without inserting our own narrative.
Compassion – Supporting them without making them feel inadequate or lacking.
Conversation – Asking, rather than telling. Listening, rather than assuming.
This shift in approach changes everything. Instead of pushing an agenda, we meet people where they are. Instead of imposing solutions, we help them clarify what they already know deep down.
People Already Have the Resources They Need
In Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), there are two presuppositions that I strongly resonate with:
The map is not the territory. This means that everyone sees the world through their own lens, shaped by their experiences, beliefs, and perspectives. No one has the full truth – just their version of it.
People have all the resources they need within them. Sometimes, people don’t need more information – they need the right questions to help them access what they already know.
This is why I don’t approach my work as a guru or an expert who has all the answers. I’m not here to tell people what to do. I’m here to remind you to Pause & Breathe, ask you the right questions, and help you tap into your own wisdom. My role is to help you clear the noise so you can hear your own guidance – the one that’s already there, waiting for you to listen.
Why People Come to Me
I believe this is why people love talking to me. They know I won’t assume I have all the answers for them. They know I’ll ask the right questions to help them get clarity. They know I don’t force solutions based on what I think is best but rather what makes sense for them.
Yes, I have a strong skill set, built over a decade of study, practice, and deep personal experience. But even beyond that, I have a lifelong connection with God and a commitment to following divine guidance in how I show up and serve. When I share insights, it’s never about forcing knowledge on someone – it’s about offering the missing pieces that truly resonate, in alignment with what they’re ready for.
Final Thoughts
If you truly care about helping others, whether as a coach, mentor, or simply as a human being, stop assuming. Stop filling in the blanks with your own story. Instead, start being curious. Ask questions. Listen.
Because when we do that, we create space for people to feel seen, heard, and understood – and that’s where real transformation happens.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Trusting God’s Vision: The Power of Holding Space for Others’ Dreams
It’s interesting how often we see people whether online or in real life deciding what others can or can’t do, what is or isn’t possible for them. I’ve noticed it a lot, and every time, it makes me pause. There’s something unsettling about watching someone dismiss another person’s vision or dream simply because it doesn’t fit into their own understanding of what’s realistic or achievable.
What fascinates me even more is how quickly some people – even those who claim to be helping others in the name of God – start shaping someone else’s path according to their own beliefs. Instead of holding space for what could be, they start molding the person’s dream into something safer, smaller, or more familiar.
But here’s the thing: We don’t know what’s possible for someone else. We don’t know how God is going to move in their life, and it’s not our place to decide the outcome of their vision.
My role, as I see it – is to hold space, to listen, and to support, without projecting my own limitations & beliefs onto someone else’s future.
What happens when we start telling others what they can or can’t do, especially when we position ourselves as being guided by God? Are we truly supporting them, or are we unknowingly steering them toward our version of what feels right?
It makes me wonder 🤔 how often do we confuse our personal fears or doubts with divine guidance? How often do we mistake our limited understanding for God’s voice?
There’s a fine line between offering wisdom and imposing our own beliefs. And when we cross that line, it doesn’t just affect the person we’re advising – it reflects something deeper within us. It’s a moment to pause and ask: Am I helping this person align with God’s will for their life, or am I subtly shaping them to fit my idea of what their life should be?
I don’t have all the answers. But what I do know is this – visionaries, out-of-the-box thinkers, and those with bold dreams don’t need us to decide what’s possible for them. They need a space where their vision is met with curiosity, not doubt.
Because at the end of the day, it’s not about what we think is possible. It’s about what God has planned – and that’s something none of us can fully see.
So maybe the real work isn’t in deciding what others can or can’t do. Maybe it’s in learning how to stand beside them, trusting that God’s vision for their life is far greater than anything we could ever imagine.
What would shift if we approached others’ dreams with that kind of openness?
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
We’ve already pulled apart the whole “eye for an eye” concept – how it was meant to create balance, not fuel payback. We also dug into how revenge culture has crept into everything – from global conflicts to cancel culture to our personal relationships.
But now, let’s talk about something that doesn’t get enough airtime: accountability without destruction.
Because here’s the thing – most people think those two are the same.
They think holding someone accountable means tearing them down. That if you don’t ruin someone for what they did, you’re letting them off the hook. But that’s not justice – that’s just revenge dressed up in self-righteousness.
So what does real accountability look like? And how does it apply to your life – especially if you’re someone who’s trying to grow, heal, and move with purpose?
Let’s break it down.
1. Accountability starts with clarity – not chaos.
When someone wrongs you – whether it’s a friend betraying your trust, a coworker throwing you under the bus, or a public figure making a harmful mistake – the first step isn’t to react.
It’s to get clear.
Clarity keeps you anchored. Without it, you’re just reacting – and reactions tend to escalate situations instead of resolving them.
2. It’s not about “winning” – it’s about restoring balance.
Here’s a hard truth: If your version of accountability is rooted in needing someone to suffer, that’s not justice – that’s ego.
I get it – when we’ve been hurt, there’s this urge to make the other person feel what we felt. It’s human. But that energy won’t give you peace – it just traps you in the same cycle you’re trying to escape.
Real accountability asks:
If it’s the latter, that’s a signal to check in with yourself.
Because your healing doesn’t come from watching someone else fall apart.
3. Consequences don’t have to be cruel.
Let’s be real – accountability doesn’t mean there are no consequences. It means those consequences actually serve a purpose.
If a friend repeatedly disrespects your boundaries, accountability might look like a tough conversation – and if they refuse to change, creating distance.
If a leader abuses their power, accountability might mean public exposure, clear repercussions, and a push for systemic change.
If you realize you’ve harmed someone, accountability means owning your actions, apologizing without excuses, and doing the work to shift your behavior.
But consequences should always be about correction – not annihilation.
It’s about creating space for growth, not fueling the fire of more pain.
What this means for you and your inner work
So how does all this connect to your own healing and growth?
Most people in my community – entrepreneurs, professionals, changemakers – you’re not out here waging wars or “canceling” people for sport.
But you are navigating relationships, business, and your own inner world – and the way you handle conflict matters.
Are you giving people the silent treatment as a form of punishment – or are you stepping back to gather yourself and set a clear boundary?
When someone hurts you, do you want an honest conversation – or are you more focused on making them feel small?
When you mess up, do you dodge accountability by making excuses – or do you face the discomfort and own it?
Because how you handle these moments is a reflection of your own heart.
And if you want to move with clarity, confidence, and integrity – both in your business and your personal life – you have to start practicing accountability without destruction.
The Shift Starts With You
Let’s not sugarcoat it – this work is hard.
It’s easier to lash out, shut down, or let your pride run the show. But those reactions don’t create real change – they just keep you stuck.
The shift happens when you start asking yourself:
Because the truth is – you can’t build anything meaningful while you’re focused on tearing others down.
The next post? We’ll go deeper into what it looks like to hold yourself accountable – because if you want to lead, heal, and grow, the work has to start with you.
by Jasmine Renee | Mar 12, 2025 | Uncategorized
Let’s get real about something that’s everywhere right now – revenge culture.
It’s loud. It’s messy. And it’s showing up in ways we don’t even realize – in politics, global conflicts, cancel culture, and even in our personal relationships. But at the root of it all is this ancient idea we’ve twisted over time: “an eye for an eye.”
In the last post, we broke down how this wasn’t about getting even – it was about keeping justice proportional. It was meant to stop the cycle of endless retaliation, not fuel it. But today, we’ve taken that concept and flipped it into a weapon.
Now, instead of seeking justice, people want satisfaction.
Let’s break it down.
Where We See Revenge Culture Today
1. In Global Conflicts:
A country is attacked, and instead of responding with strategy and wisdom, the focus becomes hitting back harder. The goal shifts from resolution to humiliation. It’s no longer about protecting people – it’s about proving a point. And the cycle repeats, leaving innocent people caught in the crossfire.
2. In Politics:
We’ve all seen it – leaders using their power to “get back” at opponents. It’s not about serving the people anymore – it’s about winning, even if it means burning everything down in the process. Policies are passed or blocked, not because they’re right or wrong, but because someone needs to “pay” for a past slight.
3. In Cancel Culture:
Someone messes up – whether it’s a celebrity, an influencer, or a regular person online – and instead of accountability, the crowd demands total destruction. It’s not enough for the person to apologize or learn. People want their career gone, their reputation ruined, their life shattered. It’s not about growth – it’s about punishment.
4. In Personal Relationships:
Ever caught yourself giving someone the silent treatment not to create space for reflection but to make them feel your anger? Or bringing up old wounds just to win an argument? That’s revenge culture on a personal level – where the goal isn’t to resolve the issue but to make the other person hurt like you do.
The Problem with Revenge Culture
Here’s the thing – revenge never ends.
When the goal is payback, there’s always going to be another hit. Another clapback. Another move in the game. The cycle doesn’t stop because pain doesn’t cancel out pain – it multiplies it.
And let’s not mistake revenge for justice.
Justice holds people accountable and aims to restore balance.
Revenge wants someone to suffer, even if it means the situation spirals further out of control.
One is rooted in truth and order. The other is fueled by ego and anger.
So What’s the Shift?
If we really want change – in our communities, our countries, and our personal lives – we have to step out of this cycle. And that doesn’t mean ignoring harm or pretending everything’s fine. It means choosing accountability over retaliation.
Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5:38-39 wasn’t about being passive – “turn the other cheek” wasn’t a call to let people walk all over you. It was about breaking the cycle. It was a bold, radical move – to not let someone else’s anger pull you into their chaos.
So here’s what I’m inviting you to sit with today:
When someone wrongs you, is your first thought about making things right – or making them hurt?
Are you mistaking your desire for control as a pursuit of justice?
And most importantly – how can you hold someone accountable without adding more destruction to the situation?
Because the truth is this: You can’t heal a wound by making another cut.
Let’s keep the conversation going. In the next post, we’ll explore what it looks like to step into accountability – for ourselves and others – without falling into the trap of revenge.
